Wednesday, 11 January 2012

Remembering those childish days

Whenever I feel lonely, I used to come to my balcony to relax my mind by taking a nap on my resting chair. But today as I rested on my chair, the sweet memories of childhood flashed in my mind. After that refreshment, I felt so energetic that still I can feel the excitement of the same in my nerves. After getting the bunch of energy into my nerves, I thought that why not to remind those sweet and sour moments of childhood to my lovely readers?
For most of us the time spent in the childhood is the most memorable time for whole of the life. The most peculiar thing of the childhood is the purity of the heart. Every child is the true synonym of the god with no hidden intention and with only selfless ocean of love to ponder over everyone.

Those nasty fights just for the sake of a candy or a pencil or sharpener were the only fights which were fought in full spirit by each of us. I can bet on it that there must be a big innocent smile on your face now after remembering one or two such nasty fights of your childhood.
One more interesting thing which can bring back the smile on your face was our aim in life. Out of the 99 children from 100, each has a unique and interesting aim of life. The most interesting and amusing thing about this is that none of the children want to be a doctor or an engineer. I do remember that I had a huge craze of becoming a washer man in my childhood. I don’t know why but I was a die hard fan of the washer man in my childhood.
The discussion on the childhood can’t be completed if the craze for the toys is not discussed. Most of the ladies now reading this post can remember their sweet dolls which were the integral part of their life. Similarly, for a male child, the craze for a car or toy pistol was the biggest craze in his childhood. Playing with the toys as everything was happening in real reflects the purity of heart in the childhood days.
Also, how can we forget our obstinate behaviour in front of our parents? We never cared about what the logic of our demand? The only thing which mattered for us was the fulfilment of our demand. It’s our parents or god who knows that how difficult it was to convince us?
Another most amusing thing of the childhood was the stories of grand mom. Those stories were the integral part of our imaginary childhood days. We all had seen lots of dreams with the characters of those stories as our main heroes. Although now we all are grown up; but still those stories are impregnated somewhere deep in our heart.
Do you remember of your excuses for not going to school? We had 1000 of excuses to convince our parents that we can’t go to school. Although our success rate to convince our parents was very low but still we never lost our hope and tried again with full zeal every morning.
Although now we all have grown up but we can’t forget those sweet memories of our child hood which laid our foundation of adulthood. Neither those days will come back nor those incidents but still we can safeguard those beautiful moments as our stress buster.
All what I have written was what my heart guided me to do so. If you have anything to share regarding this post then please do make a comment below. All constructive comments are invited with open heart.R2P7T5V23RPG

Sunday, 8 January 2012

We all are suffering from multiple personality disorder

As I promised earlier, I am back with my new post “we all are suffering from the multiple personality disorder.” After reading the title of my post, you all must be thinking that author of the post has gone out of his mind. But, I am sure that after reading the post, you will be convinced that no other title can justify this post.
Let me first ask you a simple question, can you behave the same in front of your teacher as you behave in front of your friend? I know most of you will say no and this is what I am talking about. For every situation or for every person, we have embedded a different personality. In front of teachers or our parents we have made a personality of sincere or hardworking human being whereas, in front of our friends we use to be a cool or daring type of being. Here I just talked about only two cases but likewise, you can imagine that daily we interact with how many people and how many personalities are there along with our original personality?
Now the question comes why we have different type of personalities? The answer is very simple but most of us have never paid attention to it. In present scenario, we are living under the burden of expectations of so many people that we have forgotten our originality. We always try to be what other wants to see us. A teacher or father wants us to be a sincere person so we have embedded such type of personality in front of them. A life partner expects us to be in a supporting role so we try to be a supporter or caretaker in front of him or her. But in the due course, we have forgotten that where is the original you? Now the question comes that in the ocean of so many personalities, where is our original personality? To find our originality is bit difficult task but not impossible. As in my earlier post(The secret behind your personality), here also I want to share a simple but effective trick to identify your original personality. I am asking for only half hour from your twenty hours daily. First of all try to track the half hour of your daily life where you interact maximum with the people. After identifying that peak time, just try to find that what were the expectations of the people you met in that period and what were the changes or adjustment you made in yourself for them?
Now your half of the work is done, after identifying the root now you just have to tell yourself that next time you will not behave in that manner but will try to be original. In the starting you will find it bit difficult but gradually, you will find your original personality among the so many fake personalities.
Please do make some comments below if you have anything to say after reading the post. I will be happy to gather the views of my readers.

Wednesday, 4 January 2012

The secret behind your personality

Have you ever heard about the word persona?  This single word persona has to reveal a lot about your personality. The word persona has Greek origin which was used for special kind of masks there. These masks were used to cover the face and to symbolise different personalities. In the similar fashion, our personality is nothing but the mask of thoughts covered on our originality.  When a child takes birth, he has zero thoughts and this is the reason why all the new born babies have almost the same personalities. But, the whole game changes when the child starts interacting with the outer world.

This outer world is the mother for every individual’s personality. Every single second spend by the individual in this outer world gives rise to a new thought and which alter the originality of the individual to a new fake personality. To change the originality to a so called personality is not a one day game but requires lot of years. Everything starts from a single thought and then goes to hundreds, thousands, lakhs and then ultimately infinity. Isn’t it strange that whatever we are today is just nothing but these uncountable thoughts? And the most interesting thing is that every single thought is a part of your personality.

Now the question comes that from where these thoughts came from? The answer seems to be simple but in actual is the most complex one. Ever thought which is the integral part of your personality has a common origin and that is your mind. Wherever you are or whatever you do, your mind always keeps an eye on your each activity and concludes yours every deed into a new thought. I think this is the chief reason that why our ancestor had said that your company is the most important tool to determine your personality.

Now the question which will strike in every individual’s mind that can we regulate our thoughts or can we have an eye on our own thoughts? If I have to answer this then I will say that yes we can but it requires lots of patience and which comes through practice. Our mind has become so expert in cheating us that it can make us fool thousand times in a single minute. To regulate your thoughts I will share two simple tricks with you which seem to be very simple but in actual they are not.

If I ask you that do you love music? I know the most of you will answer it with affirmation. But if ask that whenever you listen a song then, how many of you are able to listen the whole lyrics of the song without any distraction from your mind? Now the question has become complex and also I think you also got the idea of my trick. Daily, just try to listen the lyrics of one song which you like most. In the starting, you will find it little difficult but slowly slowly, you will find that what kind of thoughts are coming into your mind and the ways to tackle with them. With this simple trick, you will also start recognising your original personality covered behind the mask of your thoughts.

The second trick is also as simple as earlier, whenever you go for a walk alone then, just try to count your steps. The methodology of this trick is different but the objective and purpose is the same and that is just to realise the origin of your thoughts and to identify our originality.

Whatever I have written earlier is my own finding and discovery about the life and feels happy if you will give at least a thought on it. After reading this, if you have anything in your mind then, please feel free to jot it down. I will gladly gather all the views of my readers.

My next blog on which I am working is “We all suffering from multiple personality disorder.” I will share it soon with you. Till then, bye and have a great day.

Tuesday, 3 January 2012

The teachers who influenced my life

The word teacher itself comes with lots of respect and love. Whenever I used to remember my school days, I feel myself the most lucky person of this world to have the treasure of such resourceful teachers in my life. Let me describe this journey of my school life by keeping my most
memorable teachers in the centre.

It was the july of 1992 when I first time kept my foot on the huge ship of the school. With so many passengers on the same ship of school and with the same destination to reach, I had a little fear in my
heart as I was the newbie on the ship. But then came two sailors of the ship named Mrs.Rashmi and Mrs. Anil who look aftered me so well that my heart started treating them as my other moms in the school. I had a bonding of love and sacrifice with those teachers for my first five years of the school life. Now, even after the 14 years of my primary education, I still have a fresh picture of both in my heart.
After primary education, I was ready to travel the new journey of middle school which was little shorter than earlier journey but still long 3 years to cover. It was this period of time when I was one of
the most spoilt children of the school. As at this period of time,most of the teacher had lost faith in me but still there was a teacher named Mrs. Veena who still had lot of faith in my abilities. It was her faith which resulted in that I always scored high in her subject but could manage to score the passing marks only. The innocent and encouraging smile of Mrs. Veena is the most precious jewel of my
kitty till date.
After completing the journey of middle school, there comes the journey of two years of my high school. This was the most golden period of my life. With the juvenile energy of teen, I met with the best teachers of my life. First in the list are Mr. Kapil and Mr.Ravi. Both taught me different subjects but have one thing in common and that was their faith in my abilities. They were the real role models who nurtured a raw talent into a responsible human being. Second in this list is Mrs. Ritu Pallavi. I respect her for the true calmness and understanding of a lady. Mrs. Ritu had taught me the art of public speaking and now whenever I speak in the public place, I always give her silent tribute by reciting her name in my heart. The last mentor of this journey of high school is Mr. Vinay or Poppy bro, the man I admire for her principles and thinking. Although I didnt understand him much at that time but now I can feel and understand the meaning of each single word said by him.
The last destination of this 12 year long journey was my senior secondary education. The name which influenced me alot in this period is Mrs. Rama kapdi. She created so much interest in her subject that it laid the foundation of my further education. Although she never shown faith on my abilities but still she is my one of favourte teachers just for the sake of her command over her subject.

This was the small journey which I shared with you all. I would be happy to gather some views from your side. Please do make some comments below regarding my this post.